"Problems cannot be solved at the same level of awareness that created them." – Albert Einstein

…or rather, a stranger man.

I woke up this morning and my husband had shaved his moustache off.   Apparently, according to the costumer for the latest opera he is in, his Evil Enchanter is more Evil-Enchanter-ish sans moustache.  So off it came.

My husband has been totally bald with a moustache and goatee for the entire 10+ years we have been together. I prefer him bald – I have seen him with hair, and frankly, it’s not pretty.

But without the moustache, he looks just plain odd.  Not bad, really.  But certainly not “better”, at least to me.

My husband points out that he looks like Scott Ian, the rhythm guitarist for Anthrax – only grayer,  not as buff,  and totally missing the rock-and-roll factor.  I added this last bit.  I will take the heat later.  As a measure of full disclosure, he does play mean Guitar Hero.

It feels funny to kiss him.  

There’s an old Scottish saying that kissing a man withouth a moustache is like eating porridge without salt.

I like my porridge salty, thank-you-very-much.

(PS – they wanted him to have a widow’s peak, too, but realized that there’s only so much the Hair Club for Men can do on short notice.)

November 4th, 2008 at 1:00 pm
7 Responses to “There’s a strange man in my house…”
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    Cinnkitty Says:

    *snort*!! I feel ya girl. Once you’ve gotten used to the hair (face or head) being one way, changing it/removing it is such a drastic difference and just feels/seems weird. 🙂

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    Ulrich Says:

    Yep – bald is beautiful baby…but bald men need facial hair (unless they are Yul Brenner) – though I just made the change from a Goat to Choppers. I have to admit, I kinda like it.

    Keep the faith girl, I’m sure if you prefer it the goat will come back after the show is over. 😉

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    charlotte Says:

    and THAT is why I don’t want Rey to shave his head! He’s already strange enough as it is…and to ME he looks odd w/a bald head. Don’t get me wrong, I can name a string of men that look good / hot with tha baldness…

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    Stephanie Says:

    Oh My God! I feel for ya. John has always had some form of facial hair, but in the first year we were together, he shaved his face for his mother’s birthday. The women went out and when we got home he was sitting on the porch clean shaven. I didn’t recognize him.

    Though John has taken to wear a beard. I don’t like it all that much. I made him shave it back to a mustache and goatee for the wedding in April. He promptly grew back that beard.

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    Steph Says:

    I’ll have to see a picture. I have difficulty imagining Moose clean shaven. I always thought the mustache & goatee gave him a fabulously exotic djinn look.

    You know, Tom Selleck looked wrong when he lost the mustache, too. Some men are just MADE for facial hair.

    Oh well. It’ll grow back.

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    First time my husband shaved off his beard, I got hysterical. It was like he lost four inches of FACE.

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    Kat Says:

    Paul shaved off his moustache when he first got the C-PAP… but not the goatee. He looked like an insane Amish hippie.