"Problems cannot be solved at the same level of awareness that created them." – Albert Einstein

I SHOULD learn a lesson from Sarah.  I have blog accounts everywhere, I mean – EVERYWHERE.  Most of them just refer you to this one – Sarah is smarter.  She has figured out the magic of RSS feeds.  I am not entirely sure I want that much exposure, but if I decide I do, you can be sure I will be emailing her.  Nevertheless, I have resisted blogging on any of the others since I bought my own domain.  Except MySpace. 

Well, okay, I have published the link to this blog on my Myspace blog, but for some reason, I can’t just leave it at that.  I feel COMPELLED to actually write things there.

 Hi everyone, my name is Robbin and I am a MySpace Junkie.

Let me start by saying I have a real love-hate relationship with MySpace.  I have found some old friends in the incredible polyglot that is MySpace. That’s very cool.  I have also messaged with some folks that I have only known through other people before.  That’s also cool.  That’s the big advantage to MySpace.  Almost EVERYONE has an account.  Even if they actually blog over on TypePad or LiveJournal or Blogspot or WordPress, they have that guilty little MySpace secret hanging in the back. 

That’s where my infatuation with MySpace ends. 

I hate it for the same reason I hate casinos.  The overt, blinking, flashing, moving, dizzying commercialism of MySpace always makes me feel a bit nauseous when I page over to it.  From the time I was a small child, I have been overstimulated easily, and it is just too, too much.  For the record, the movie “Cool World” (now THAT dates me), gave me that same sick feeling.  I just could not focus with that much going on in the background.  I lack the ability to screen out incidental stimuli and focus on what I am trying to read/hear/watch.  I hate crowded rooms, and MySpace is THE giant virtual, smoky, crowded singles bar of the internet.  Great to meet a friend and grab a quick opener, but you go someplace else when the real conversation starts.

So I will admit to having a perverse interest in perusing my friend’s friends lists.  But I always feel like I have to wash my hair and change my clothes afterward.

July 13th, 2006 at 10:44 am
3 Responses to “Pardon me while I stub out this cigarette…”
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    Amy-Renee Says:

    I am with you on the strange intrigue with checking out peoples friend list. It’s weird, I get so fascinated. Sometimes I worry they can see me and they know I have no business stalking my friends friends! HAhahahahaaaa!!! I am, as you are well aware of, completely addicted to myspace. COMPLETELY ADDICTED. I love it and I’m not ashamed! Okay…a little bit ashamed…..

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    Sarah Says:

    actually, I have no idea how that RSS feed thing works. But I know people who do- and apparently it’s supereasy to set up a livejournal feed. The person who does it has to have a paid LJ account, but it took him like, 3 minutes, so I don’t think it’s too hard.
    I’m a horrid friendslist stalker, too. It’s entirely too addictive to see what your friends’ friends’ friends are up to. It’s fun to see that eventually, you work your way back to a link you recognize. And, well, learning about other people makes you feel so productive, even when you’re really just dodging the productivity you’re being paid for…
    I’m with ya. And yeah, myspace is indeed the singles bar of the internet. And xanga is the Jr. High.

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    Kat Says:

    I’m so far behind — no MySpace account. Of course, the fact that one of my coworkers was fired because of what he posted on his account? Well…